Monday 29 November 2021

A Story of Life

 

Recently I was asked, as a representative of Omega Writers, to attend the awards ceremony of the Stories of Life writing competition.

 It was a blessing to see the South Australian writers present in person and know that interstate writers were able to watch online.

Stories of Life is a great competition, giving opportunity to writers at any stage of development to apply themselves to tell a story that encourages, inspired by real life events. A number of people I know from this network and other connections were published in the anthology that resulted, and it was great to read their stories.

I have a real-life story of my own I’d like to share. It is about the love of God in a difficult situation.

 

It’s a true story, a little bit funny, a bit sad, but it’s an inspirational story. It started Easter 2015, on Good Friday to be exact.

As is often the case on Good Friday, I found myself part of the Good Friday church service. I was playing the piano, and my husband (the pastor at that time) had arranged, among other things, that I would play the old hymn ‘When I Survey the Wondrous Cross’ as a background accompaniment while three people read pieces of Scripture. I needed to get a scanned copy of the music as I couldn’t find my old hymn books. I had it all sorted and I’d practiced it, and it was all good. The service went along as planned, and it was inspirational and a little bit stirring, as all Good Friday services should be.

 

 At the end of the service my husband did one of his special spontaneous moments that he is famous for, and announced to the congregation that he would get his wife (that’s me) to come back to the piano and sing ‘The Old Rugged Cross’. I’m sort of used to these surprise put-you-on-the-spot ideas that pop up from time to time, and I can usually fumble about and make something happen, but I honestly hadn’t played ‘The Old Rugged Cross’ in years. I couldn’t remember half the words, was not sure which key it should be played in so that I didn’t find myself shattering the glass windows with notes that were too high. AND you know with old hymns, they are notorious for throwing in odd chords outside the usual easy progression. I just wasn’t sure if I could actually do it on the spot with no opportunity to practise first. But the congregation had their eyes turned towards me in expectation. My husband magnanimously says: “Is that all right?” He'd already told the congregation I’d do it, so it had to be all right, didn't’t it? I shrugged my shoulders and said weakly, “I guess so...”

 

I got to the piano and took a guess at the key, and hoped for the best. I spotted another singer who is like me (from times past and should know ancient hymns) and invited him to join me, especially since I wasn’t sure of the words. If I was going to fall flat on my face, better to have someone else go down with me. So off I launched.

 ‘On a Hill, far away, stood an old rugged cross, the emblem of suffering and shame, and I love that old cross, where the dearest and best, for a world of lost sinners was slain...’

 I’m pleased to say we got the right key, there were no awkward and difficult elusive chords, and the computer operator found the words and threw them up on screen. Crisis averted. Job done.

After the service my husband came to me aside, and he was really quite cross. He said to me: “Why did you have to make such a fuss about playing that hymn?”

I was a little annoyed myself, as I thought I’d done a sterling job under pressure and said so, pointing out how many obstacles I’d had to overcome without practise or music to guide me.

“But you’d just played it earlier in the service!” he said, prepared to continue the argument.

“No!” I replied. “That was ‘When I survey the Wondrous Cross’. It’s a completely different hymn!”

“That’s what I wanted you to play,” he said.

“Well that’s not what you said!”

 “Yes it was. I said, ‘When I survey the Wondrous Cross’.”

“No, you said, ‘The Old Rugged Cross’!”

 “Did I?”

 “Yes, you did!”

I waited for the humble apology, which might or might not have emerged, but instead something miraculous happened.

 A lady by the name of Julie came up to my husband, beaming and full of enthusiasm.

“That is my favourite hymn”, she said. “I was so cross with my family this morning, because they were so slow getting ready for church, we missed the singing at the beginning, and I said to them, if I miss out singing ‘The Old Rugged Cross’, I’ll be very upset. I’m so glad you kept it until the end.”

 

Several months later, Julie passed away after battling a long illness.

 That Easter morning eight months earlier was the first time I had met Julie as she was new to the church. In the following eight months I got to know her really well as she travelled the journey of battling cancer. 

In that time I never saw her that she didn’t say how blessed she was because God had done something for her. Even when she was weak and really quite sick, you never really knew it, because her whole outlook was God is in this moment. He is blessing me all the time. 

That Good Friday morning there had been no plan to sing ‘The Old Rugged Cross’. No preparation, no thought of it, and my husband didn’t even mean for it to be sung. But God did. He knew it would be Julie’s last Easter Friday, and that hymn was special to her.

I know this is a bit long, but I just wanted to honour God, because when I spoke to Julie four days before she died, she said to me, all I want to do is see God glorified.

 Even when things aren’t supposed to happen sometimes, they do, but if Julie was commentating on it, she would very definitely have said: ‘It was God.’

 

If you have something in your heart inspired by a real-life event, check out Stories of Life and perhaps you’d like to enter the writing competition for next year.

I'd like to wish all the CWD readers a blessed Christmas season, and hope that as you spend thoughtful time you may recall that story that needs to be shared. 

Click here for more information on Stories of Life

 


 

Meredith Resce

Author of the new Luella Linley - License to Meddle series and The Heart of Green Valley series


 

 

 

16 comments:

  1. What an inspiring story of life. And well done you for being ready and willing in season and out of season. What an amazing God we worship.

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  2. Definitely an inspiration God moment in time. My late husband was a rector, and I too played up front. There were numerous God moments that happened at just the right time. John had been a Church Army officer, and was asked by his director to visit a north-shore Sydney church to present a deputation. His director assured him no sermon was necessary, as the rector of the parish was going to do it. I settled in the pew with our girls as John entered the vestry to pray with the rector. Suddenly, he came rushing out and leaned over the pew whispering..."Quick, pray for me. He's assumed I'm preaching and prayed for my powerful message." He hadn't come with a prepared sermon or notes. But God took over, via the Holy Spirit, and he indeed preached a powerful sermon. After the service, standing outside the church with the rector, shaking the hands of people as they left, one lovely old lady who was well in her '80's said to John, "Thank you for that, it sounded so prepared." God is always at work, especially in the every day where something is needed by a particular person at a particular time. Thank you for sharing, Meredith. A great encouragement.

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  3. Awesome story Meredith - I love those times when we, in trepidation, are caught in the spotlight and God comes through! I had a story in the anthology called The Vow [under a pseudonym]. Bless you!

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  4. What a beautiful and inspiring story. My husband who was a pastor before retirement was a bit like that. I had to be all things to all in some churches. I our last church I was Sunday School leader as I always believed a Church needs a Sunday Dchool if possible, sometimes pianist and sometimes organist. I don’t think we had a situation as beautiful as this, but there were some inspiring times.

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  5. Oh dear, Meredith, I can definitely relate to your story of having been put on the spot with playing 'The Old Rugged Cross'. Thanks for sharing--although your story did bring back some scary memories of my own! One time, we arrived at a church for my husband to preach. There had been some upheaval at this church and one poor staff member was running around trying to do everything. Jokingly, I said, 'Well, if you need a pianist, I can play.' I was then assured the music had been taken care of, but about a minute before the service was to begin, this poor staff member took a phone call, then turned to me and said, 'The musician isn't coming!' She thrust some music into my hand, but when I looked, it was only guitar chords. So I had to head to the grand piano and fumble through using just those chords, then fossick around in the piano stool for other things to play as the service continued! Amazing how God undertakes in these situations though!

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  6. What a wonderful act of grace! I love how God can weave even mistakes and miscommunications into His great plan. Brilliant story.

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  7. Thankyou Meredith :) So Grateful for a God who Graces us with His Kindnesses. His mercies are new every morning.

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  8. Love this. Thank you so much for sharing, Meredith. It made me smile for so many reasons. Most of all, that God is always working, even in our 'mistakes'.

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  9. A beautiful story, Meredith. I could see the drama unfolding as you described your husband assuming you’d play the song, your frustration, and then the way God used the situation for good. What a powerful reminder that what frustrates us or seems wrong can be made so right.

    Happy Christmas to you and yours. Xxxx

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  10. I remember Julie. Such an inspiring person. Thank you for bringing that memory back to me. Great story.

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  11. Thanks for sharing that, Meredith. Definitely a God moment. I can think of a time when I was on a YWAM outreach in New Zealand. The girls in our group were ministering to a ladies group at a church one morning and we each had a different part to play. My part was to just get up at a given point and play and sing a song I'd written called 'Wounded Bird'. I wasn't supposed to say anything, as the others were doing that. But as I got up, I felt God prompting me to give the background to the song. I had written it after seeing a picture of a bird in the snow. I thought it was a lovely photo, but when I read the caption, it said something like, 'A wounded bird in the snow. It will probably die.' The song was about how God can heal wounded birds like us.

    Anyway, I did my blurb and sang the song, and the rest of our session went on as expected. Then at the end, a woman came up to me and said how much the song had meant to her, because she'd just come back from a memorial service for her son, a soldier who'd died on a mountain in the snow after a training exercise a year before. The song didn't mention snow at all. If God hadn't prompted me to do the blurb about how I wrote it, it may not have touched the woman in the same way. God knows.

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  12. It is a great lesson for us to realise that God is always up to something, and we need to be open to cooperate with him. That is a precious story, Nola. Perhaps that is worthy of a Stories of Life chapter.

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    1. Thanks Meredith. I've already had it published in one of those 'Australian Stories' anthologies, so I don't think it would be eligible. But your story reminded me of it. Always great to remember those God moments.

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  13. Thanks for that inspiring and heart-rending story. I needed the tissues whilst reading it!

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  14. That is such a lovely 'God story'. Well done you though for being brave enough to play an unfamiliar song. God blessed it.

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  15. I think I remember that service. Nice to see how it actually worked out for good.

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