Showing posts with label helping. Show all posts
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Monday, 9 October 2017

The 'Do Unto Others' of Marketing by Nola Passmore



Soon after being released from Ravensbruck concentration camp, Corrie ten Boom began a worldwide ministry of forgiveness and reconciliation that took her to more than sixty countries over several decades.  During those years, she was billeted in the homes of hundreds of people, and experienced their warm hospitality.  She thanked God for these wonderful hosts, but also credited her parents with planting the seeds of generosity.  All throughout her childhood and into adulthood, their home was open to anyone. There was always an extra place at the table, a word of encouragement and an open ear.  Corrie later reaped the benefits of her family’s hospitality.

We’ve all heard the adage ‘do to others as you would have them do to you’ (Lk. 6:31), but do we apply this in our writing?  We’re fortunate that there are supportive writing groups like Christian Writers Downunder, Australasian Christian Writers, Omega Writers and FaithWriters.  All of these groups emphasise community and helping each other.  However, I’ve also seen the other side where some writers exude a sense of entitlement.  They want everyone to support their writing, but are reluctant to help others in return.  Such a person might join a group of writers purely to market their own book without giving anything back to the community; or they might expect their publisher to nurture and promote their book, yet be reluctant to even share posts about their publisher’s books, services and events. 

‘Give, and it will be given to you.  A good measure, pressed down, shaken together and running over, will be poured into your lap.  For with the measure you use, it will be measured to you.’ (Lk. 6:38)

How can we apply that in the marketing of our books?  Here are a few suggestions to ponder.

  • If you want people to review your book on sites such as Amazon or Goodreads, you must be prepared to review other authors’ books. (See my post about reviews here).
  • If you expect others to buy your book, you need to be willing to purchase other people’s books.  If your budget is a problem, see my suggestions later in this post.
  • If you expect people to share your book news on social media sites such as Facebook, Twitter, Pinterest or Instagram; you need to do the same for them.
  • If you want someone to give you feedback on your manuscript, you need to be prepared to give them feedback on their writing.
  • If you want people to comment on your blog, you need to comment on other people’s blogs.
  • If you want people to subscribe to your newsletter, give them something in return (e.g. a special offer or some subscriber-only benefits, such as a free story).
  • If you want people to help you with events such as workshops, book fairs and book launches, you need to be willing to lend a hand to others.


I could go on, but I think you get the idea.  If we’re going to support each other as a community of writers, we need to give before we take.



There are some caveats to what I’ve been saying.  Firstly, we need to watch our attitudes.  We should help others because we genuinely want to support and encourage them, not just because we want something out of it.  People can spot a phony a mile away and no-one likes being used.

Secondly, ‘doing unto others’ doesn’t mean we give someone a five-star review because they gave us a five-star review.  Honesty is critical.  There have been times when I’ve started reading a book with every intention of posting a review, but then felt I couldn’t really endorse it.  If it’s an author I know personally, I’ve chosen to not review the book rather than post a negative review.  There have also been times when I’ve been asked to share a Facebook post or tweet, but I didn’t feel comfortable doing so. This could be due to the content or to other practical considerations (e.g. I'd shared other posts recently and didn't want to spam my friends and followers).

Time and money constraints can also be issues.  It only takes a couple of seconds to retweet a message on Twitter, but it can take ten hours or more to read someone’s draft manuscript and provide constructive feedback.  For that reason, I’ve decided to only do that favour for my critique partners.  Most people don’t have endless pots of money to buy books, but we can still help authors and publishers by borrowing a book from a library or a friend, and then posting a review.  Some authors and publishers will be happy to give you an Advanced Reader Copy of their book in exchange for an honest review. If you sign up to NetGalley, you can also receive free e-books in exchange for reviews.

Some people might find this post challenging.  I find it challenging too.  I could be doing a lot more to support other writers, editors and publishers; and I admit that my attitude is not always as it should be. None of us is perfect, and we all have limitations and responsibilities.  We can’t do everything, but we can all do something.  Can you take time to bless a writer, editor or publisher today?  It could be a simple ‘like’, comment or retweet. You don’t know what blessings may be poured out for you in return.


Nola Passmore has had more than 150 short pieces published, including fiction, poetry, devotions, true stories, magazine articles, and academic papers. She and her husband Tim run a freelance writing and editing business called The Write Flourish.  You can find her weekly writing tips blog on their website.  

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